153 Best Tinder Openers (That Women Just Can’t Resist)

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Best Tinder Openers

1. Poll: Cereal first? Or milk first?
2. OK, I can already tell we have the same sense of humor.
3. What do I have to do to make you fall madly in love with me?
4. Did you grow up around here?
5. Hey “Name” Truth Or Dare?
6. Quick! Are you a dog person or a cat person?
7. I love your last photo. Where was it taken?
8. Be honest: What is one animated character you’ve had a crush on?
9. I see you love The Office. Is that one of your top passions?
10. When our kids ask us how we met, what lie are we going to give them?
11. You Didn’t Have To Bring Your [Cute Animal] To Get Me To Swipe!
12. My battery is running low, but I’m using it to message you. That’s how attractive you are.
13. Why Do You Look So Innocent But Yet So Wild?
14. On a scale of 1 to 4 at-home COVID tests, how free are you tonight?
15. Tell me about the worst first date you’ve ever been on. That way, I’ll be less nervous when we go on ours.
16. Want to swap numbers? It’s easier than talking over this app.
17. Hey, <insert name>! Do you know what’s most interesting about your profile?
18. I’m not really a romantic — but you might change that.
19. Your parents are going to hate me. I can already tell.
20. You’re So Cute But So Far!
21. Is your ideal date a five star restaurant with fancy wine or pizza in bed?
22. I was hoping you would swipe right on me.
23. Swiping right means we’re married now, right?
24. What brings you here?
25. Your smile is gorgeous. I bet the rest of you are, too.
26. What’s your most controversial opinion? If we can overcome this, we can overcome anything.
27. Red or white? Which type of wine is waiting for me in your fridge right now?
28. How Did You Know I Liked [Something About Her]?
29. If you were a mixed drink, what type would you be?
30. Would you rather spawn a mermaid tail anytime you got wet, or turn into a werewolf every full moon?

Unique Tinder Openers

1. What’s Your Favorite Book?
2. I’m going to make this real easy. If you want to make me swoon, send me the best animal GIF you can find.
3. What’s The Best Place You’ve Traveled?
4. Are You A Stark, Lannister, Baratheon, Or Targaryen?
5. You can tell a lot about a person by their Netflix queue. So, what’s the last thing you watched?
6. What Three Characters Combined Best Describe You?
7. Why’d You Swipe Right?
8. Pop quiz: What are your thoughts on pineapple pizza? No pressure, but this could seal our fate.
9. What’s Your Idea Of A Perfect First Date?
10. Looking for Jim to my Pam… know anyone who might be interested?
11. What’s The First Thing You Do When You Wake Up In The Morning?
12. My grandparents met on [insert dating app name], so I’m feeling really good about this.
13. [Insert GIF of the Titanic splitting in half] An icebreaker. There, I did the thing.
14. What’s Your Theme Song?
15. I think there’s something wrong with my phone… because I can’t find your number in it.
16. Two truths and one lie — go. Fair warning: I“m pretty good at this.
17. When your mom told you she wanted the best for you, I’m pretty sure she was talking about me.
18. I have this rule where I only talk to strangers on the Internet about pizza. So, thin crust or deep dish?
19. If you were a fruit, you’d be a fine-apple.
20. If you were a vegetable, you’d be a cute-cumber.
21. When Sharing Ice Cream, Do You Dig Out All Of The Best Parts Or Share Them Equally?
22. Be honest: Did you swipe right for me or my fur baby?
23. Why Did You Pick This App?
24. What size bowling shoes should I get for you? You know, for our date at the bowling alley this weekend.
25. What Show Are You Marathon Watching Right Now?
26. What’s The Worst Opening Line You’ve Ever Received?
27. In case you were wondering, dad jokes are the way to my heart. Anddd fire away! The cornier, the better.
28. How Would You Describe Yourself In Three Words? How Would Your Friends Describe You In Three Words?
29. What’s The Worst Date You’ve Ever Been On? Mine Involved…
30. Cheese, Pepperoni, Or Hawaiian?

Funny Tinder Openers

1. Two wrongs don’t make right, but two rights make a perfect match.
2. If you had to describe my profile in three words, what would you choose? And why would they be iconic, perfect, and flawless?
3. You look just like [celebrity they look like]. Do you hear that all the time?
4. I’m trying to think of a Postmates pickup line, but I need some help with the delivery.
5. Before we get chatting, I want you to know I’ll never send you unsolicited dick pics. Duck pics, though, I can’t promise anything [send picture of a duck].
6. Help me choose what to make for dinner? I’ll buy you breakfast after our date in return…
7. Which song would you choose as the soundtrack for your life?
8. If I made you dinner, what’s a meal that’d make you fall in love with me?
9. Tell me two truths and a lie about you and I’ll try to guess which one’s fake.
10. I don’t want to flood your inbox, but dam — you look good.
11. Using only emojis, tell me your life story.
12. I’d love to grab margs sometime and taco ‘bout our feelings.
13. What’s your most controversial opinion?
14. You had me at [something in their profile that made them stand out]…
15. Do you need me to call the fire department? I bet your phone is full of matches.
16. How long have you lived in [city]? What’s your favorite restaurant/bar/day out here?
17. Are you a barista? Because I like you a latte.
18. I want to hear your finest dad joke! Make me laugh/cringe, the cornier the better.
19. You know, I’ve been waiting for you to message me, but I guess I’ll take one for the team.
20. Choose our date: A movie, boozy night out, or hiking?
21. Hopefully, this app will lead to a great meal.
22.  Hmm, I think your first message to me must have gotten lost in cyberspace… It’s OK. I’ll send you one.
23. Do you believe in love at first swipe, or should we unmatch and then match again?
24. [Along with a dog/cat gif] Cat or dog person? Your response is required to determine whether we’re a match.
25. They must call you Earl Grey because you’re such a hot tea.
26. We can say we met on Spotify because you’re the hottest new single.
27. Are you a library book? Because I’d like to check you out.
28. Some people think with their hearts, some with their heads, but I’m glad we both think with our thumbs.
29. What’s the worst opening line you’ve ever received, or is it this message?
30. Tell me about your perfect Sunday…

Creative Tinder Openers

1. I’m going camping with my bestie next month. What fun stuff have you got coming up?
2. What subject do you like to talk about for hours on end?
3. Hi [insert name]! Has anyone ever told you that you could stop traffic with your smile?
4. I have arrived all the way from the future to give you the message you sent me with, and that is ‘Don’t think so much. Just talk to this person because they can make you the happiest person alive.
5. Looks like blue skies all weekend. How are you planning to take advantage of the sunshine?
6. Looks like you have an awesome circle of friends! What do they like about you the most?
7. What do you find prettier: the morning sun or the evening moon?
8. I have this rule of asking strangers what kind of book they prefer? So, paperback or hardcover?
9. Describe yourself in five emojis!
10. I am a professional mood changer. If you ever feel low, shoot me a message, and I will turn your frown upside down.
11. If you could dine at any restaurant in the city, where would you want to go?
12. When your friends advised you that you deserve better, I think they were talking about me.
13. Which is that one topic you can talk about for hours and not get tired?
14. Hi [insert name]! Match thinks were 92% compatible. Do you think the computer algorithms got it right?
15. You’re so pretty, and I’m totally stressed about how to start a conversation with you. I’m just going to keep it simple. Would you like to grab coffee sometime?
16. Looks like you love adventure sports. Any specific reason why you like it so much?
17. Your ideal life in 5 years time. What does it look like?
18. In case you were wondering, I too love chocolates and do not mind sharing it with the one willing to tell me more about themselves.
19. You’re obviously a way better runner than I am, but would you be willing to slow your pace a little and go for a run on Saturday?
20. One question: Do you like French fries with or without sauce? No pressure, I’m just curious to know if we could get along.
21. Your book collection looks amazing. Which book would you suggest for a non-reader like me who wants to get into reading?
22. [Insert a Gif of an ice tray cracking] Now that the ice is broken, nothing should stop us from having a good conversation.
23. Looking forward to International Coffee Day on Oct. 1? Do you like Starbucks or Peets?
24. Let’s skip the trivial and get to the main question: pizza or hotdog?
25. Even just looking at your photo gives me butterflies, but I have to ask, would you be up for a movie?
26. You’re given a million dollars but have to spend it all in a day and have nothing to show for it by the end. What does that day look like?
27. Someone told me that flattery could make anyone smile. So, did you know that you look a lot like [celebrity name]?
28. What motivates you to get up in the morning?
29. If you’re like me, you probably streamed a bunch of shows this last year. What are your two favorites so I can add them to my list?
30. Hi [insert name]! You have the most gorgeous green eyes. Did you get them from your mother or your father?

Clever Tinder Openers

1. Are you my appendix? Because you give me this weird tingly feeling and I kinda want to take you out.
2. (Picture of a lemon) Sorry I couldn’t find an opening lime.
3. Who would you rather be stuck in a lift with? [List two celebs]
4. Love your taste in music. What’s the best concert you’ve ever been to?
5. There’s not much on your bio but I’d love to get to know you. Quick Fire question round?
6. I bet you a drink your personality is even better than your looks.
7. I’d tell you you’re gorgeous, but I’m sure you get that all the time. How about you describe yourself with a gif instead?
8. I know we’re all sick of being quarantined, but I’m trying to LOCKDOWN someone like you.
9. Your [a quality about them] really caught my eye. You’re stunning!
10. Do you like raisins? How about a date?
11. What would you do if you won the lottery?
12. The 10th picture back in your camera roll describes our relationship. What’s the prognosis?
13. Do you like bad boys/girls? Because I’m really bad at this.
14. I’m vaxxed, waxed, and ready for a date. Where are we going?
15. I’m using my last 2% battery to send you this message. If that’s not commitment, I don’t know what is.
16. I saw you also like [hobby] and couldn’t not swipe right! How did you get into it?
17. There is something wrong with my phone – it doesn’t have your number in it.
18. You’re a [film/movie/show on their profile] fan right? What do you think of the newest release?
19. Do you have pineapple on your pizza?
20. What’s your usual McDonald’s/Greggs/KFC order?
21. Alright, I’m here. What are your two other wishes?
22. I had a great opening line ready, but you’re so hot I’ve forgotten it.
23. Lol your bio had me on the floor. Wanna link up sometime and tell each other dad jokes?
24. I’m free Thursday at 7pm. Work for you?
25. Coachella or Glastonbury?
26. Hi! How are you *really* doing right now?
27. Were Ross and Rachel really on a break?
28. Not gonna lie– you are SO my type.
29. Please tell me you’re not the type of person who claps when the plane lands…
30. Do you have a spirit animal?

Hot & Sexy Tinder Openers

1. Are you a light switch? Because you really turn me on.
2. Your body is made of 70% water and I’m thirsty right now.
3. Do I have to sign for your package?
4. Are you tired? Want to change that?
5. I’m not a dentist, but I bet I could give you a filling.
6. Baby, are you a lion? Because I can see you lion in my bed tonight.
7. If I were an enzyme, I’d be DNA helicase so I could unzip your genes.
8. Your Uber is arriving in 1 minute. Please be ready to meet your driver, assuming you’d like to meet up for some fun.
9. 11/10 would go to brunch with you the morning after.
10. Want to start this relationship off with a bang? (Literally?)
11. What did you say your name was? I want to make sure I’m screaming the right name tonight.
12. I was told I have a Vitamin D deficiency. Could you help me?
13. Question: What is 14 + 38 – 29 x 3? Answer: What I’m looking to do with you.
14. Getting you off Tinder isn’t the only way I want to get you off.
15. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise I’ll give it back.
16. I’m down for some casual fun if you are.
17. Aside from being extremely sexy, what else do you do for a living?
18. I must be a beaver because I’m dying for your wood.
19. That sweater looks amazing on you. I bet I would too!
20. I’m not a weatherman, but you can expect a few more inches tonight.
21. Are you a campfire? Because you’re hot and I want s’more.
22. You look like an extremely hard worker and I have an opening that you can fill.
23. I have 206 bones in my body. Want to give me another one?
24. Dinner first, or do you want to skip straight to dessert?
25. I hope you don’t have kids, because I want to be the only one to call you daddy/mommy.
26. TBH, I’m DTF.
27. Please don’t let this go straight to your head, but do you want some?
28. I love your outfit in the first picture. I bet it would look even better on my bedroom floor.
29. Are you an archaeologist? Because I’ve got a large bone for you to examine.
30. You, me, some takeout, and some headboard-banging?

Romantic Tinder Openers

1. I usually go for 8’s but I guess I’ll settle for a 10.
2. If you were a household item you’d have to be a broom… because you just swept me off my feet.
3. If you’re as good at cuddling as you’re good-looking, I’m signing myself up on the waitlist for a date.
4. Are you on a crime spree? Because I think you just stole my heart.
5. I’m researching important dates in history, do you want to be mine?
6. Can you do magic? Because as soon as I saw you everyone else just up and disappeared.
7. Do you ever wear fishnets? Because you’re a real catch.
8. Is that a smartphone in your pocket, or are you just „appy“ to see me?
9. I guess now I’m an organ donor — because I am ready to give you my heart.
10. Roses are red, violets are blue, how did I get so lucky to match with you?
11. Are you from space? Because you’re out of this world good-looking.
12. Are you ready for some smooth math moves? Here we go. Are you an angle? Because you’re so acute.
13. My mom told me not to talk to strangers online, but I’ll make an exception for you.
14. Are you a bank loan? Because you have my interest.
15. What song best describes your love life?
16. I want to use my coupons for free hugs on you.
17. What’s a perfect gentleman like me doing without your phone number?
18. Are you French? Because Eiffel for you.
19. Are you as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside?
20. I’d say you’re the bomb, but that could turn into lethal conversation…
21. Are you sure your name isn’t fire? Because you are smoking hot.
22. So I’ve been trying to come up with a good psychology pickup line for you, but I’m aFreud I couldn’t come up with anything.
23. Before we go out, I’m going to need to see your criminal record, because it can’t be legal to be that hot!
24. Do you have a map? Because I just keep getting lost in your eyes. Ugh, cheesy, I know, but seriously they are gorg!
25. Do you like bagels? Because you’re bae goals.
26. I am well balanced and stable, but willing to let you knock me off my feet.
27. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should we match again?
28. Serious question: Are you an alien? Because I think my heart was just abducted.
29. What’s the most romantic thing you’ve ever done?
30. Do you play soccer? You look like a keeper.

Cool Tinder Openers

1. I’m shy, so you should give me credit for starting a conversation with the sexiest person on this app.
2. I don’t know who’d be more excited about us dating, me or my mum.
3. My dog would love you. And he has great taste.
4. I don’t have any conversation starters ready but I couldn’t wait to talk to you.
5. When can I take you out?
6. So when our grandchildren ask us how we met, what are we going to tell them?
7. I bet my dog would like you.
8. I don’t flirt, but I will seduce you with my awkwardness. Is it working yet?
9. I’m doing a survey: What’s your name? What’s your number? And are you free this weekend?
10. Will you be my student debt? Because I’d like to have you around for the rest of my life.
11. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would buy me?
12. I know you’re a total stranger now, but that won’t last for long.
13. Did it hurt when you fell down from heaven?
14. Warning: If we end up alone together, we’re going to do some NSFW things.
15. I have four percent battery remaining. I chose to message you. Did I choose wisely?
16. You didn’t need to put a dog in your photo to make me swipe right.
17. I’m free Friday if you want to skip the awkward online convos and take me out for a coffee.
18. Ngl, I was really hoping you’d swipe right for me.
19. What’s your favorite restaurant in your area? Maybe you can take me there someday.
20. My psychic told me this conversation is going to go well. Let’s see if they’re right.
21. I  had a great opening line, but you’re so fit I’ve completely forgotten it.
22. Is one message enough to make you fall in love with me? Or should I message you again?
23. Can an awkward Tinder conversation end in true love? We’re about to find out.
24. Your smile is gorgeous. I bet the rest of you is, too.
25. Do you snore? I need to know before I ask you to stay the night.
26. Feel like lowering your standards and going on a date with me?
27. Want to make a deal? I’ll cook you dinner if you cook me breakfast.
28. Your profile says you don’t like one-night stands. Which is too bad because I can make you two night stands and a table. AKA, I’m really good with my hands.
29. I’ve been patiently waiting for you to hit on me.
30. I like a man/woman in *insert something they are wearing in a picture*

Sweet Tinder Openers

1. I kind of, sort of, well, pretty much think you seem amazing. Want to chat sometime?
2. If you wanted to talk, it’d definitely make my day… or maybe year.
3. I’d tell you you’re gorgeous, but I’m sure you get that all the time. How about you describe yourself with a gif instead?
4. Hi GIRL’S NAME, you have incredible eyes, I can stare at you for a day without thinking twice.
5. Hi, my name is YOUR NAME! I just want to let you know you are the most beautiful person I’ve seen in a while.
6. I had a really great opening line, but you’re so cute I got all distracted and forgot it.
7. You should be a photographer because your profile blows everyone else out of the water.
8. If you respond to one message today, let it be mine.
9. My day would be much better if I spent it with you.
10. Hello beautiful! Hope your day is as amazing as you are!
11. Hey, you’re really cute. But I’m sure you’ve heard this pickup line before.
12. You’re gorgeous, but I’m sure everyone tells you that.
13. I want this message to be the reason you smile at your screen.
14. Hello. Also, you are amazing.
15. You are a sign that dreams come true. I dreamt about you, and now I found you.
16. Hi dear. You are a little bit older\younger than I am but you’re breathtaking and I have fallen madly in love with you.
17. Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?
18. You are amazing and perfect in every way. Damn, autocorrect. I mean good morning.
19. You’re too cute to be single. What’s the catch?
20. You’re one of God’s finest creations.
21. Hi there my doctor told me I am lacking vitamin U, could you help me?
22. If I could be anything in the world, I choose the air you breathe.
23. Could you please reply to this message and make me feel like the luckiest person in the world?
24. Hey there… How are you? ? You are really So beautiful and attractive and I know if you attract tons of messages.
25. I remember you from my dreams. You’re the one who swept me off my feet.
26. I don’t have anything new to say, but I only wanted an excuse to chat with you.
27. This is the first time in a long time I’ve felt butterflies.
28. Blonde hair with blue eyes… Aren’t you the society’s perfect picture of a very pretty girl?
29. I think my stars just aligned with yours.
30. Love is a pretty risky game, but you are worth me risking it all.

Cute Tinder Openers

1. That awkward moment when you try to message a guy/girl and all you can think of is hello.
2. You deserve a whole sheet of gold stars.
3. What are you most likely to stay up all night talking about?
4. You had me at online now.
5. I want to be the reason you look into your phone and smile.
6. I don’t flirt, but I will totally seduce you with my awkwardness.
7. I tend to wear my heart on my profile.
8. I like hugs.
9. My atoms are attracted to your atoms. It’s chemistry.
10. The truth? I like you a lot. And I don’t even know you yet. I just have an idea.
11. Hello, bonjour, aloha, salut! (I wasn’t sure how to say hi, so I tried a bunch.)
12. I bet my cat would like you.
13. I’d love to talk to you. For reals. No fakesies.
14. You have no idea how happy it would make me to talk to you.
15. I was more excited to see your profile photo than pizza. And I really like pizza.
16. I passed by your photo too many times not to stop a say hi.
17. You make me smile. That is all.
18. Double thumbs up to you.
19. You seem super duper.
20. You had me at It’s a Match.
21. I bet my dog would like you.
22. You (yes, you) are the person I want to talk to.
23. I’m looking for someone I can be a complete nerd with. You interested?
24. Rawr means hello in dinosaur. RAWR!
25. Just saying hi. Because I’m annoying like that.
26. I’m willing to risk the cooties if you are.
27. I love hearing other people’s stories. Do you have a good one to tell?
28. Anyone can be cool but awesomeness like yours takes practice.
29. I like how your nose is in the middle of your face. That’s really cute.
30. I think I quite fancy you.

Short and Simple Tinder Openers

1. You look like a right swipe.
2. So, what is it that you want us to do?
3. You have no idea how many times I had to swipe left to find you.
4. How does this work? Are we in a serious relationship now?
5. I wish everyday could be like today, beautiful and sweet, just like you girl!
6. I thought I’ll regret using Tinder again, and then I saw your profile.
7. Favorite Sunday Activities?
8. We matched, so here I am.
9. So, we matched. The next step is to start picking the wedding date, right?
10. What’s Your Go-To Karaoke Song?
11. On a scale from one to America, how free are you tonight?
12. We matched so I guess we both have good taste.
13. Where and when?
14. Ever since I saw your profile, I can’t think straight.
15. You have a smile that can light up a room and a positive spirit that improves every space you occupy.
16. Cheese, Pepperoni, Or Hawaiian?
17. If we were to go out on a date, where would we go?
18. Tell me you believe in love at first swipe.
19. Roses are red, and violets are blue. I’m so bad at poetry — I have no clue. Would you be my girlfriend anyway?
20. Oh, I was hoping that you’d swipe right.
21. I would totally let you take me out on a date.
22. Number. You. Now.
23. They say you need air to live, but all I need is you.
24. Do you want me to hit you up with a cheesy pick-up line or can we skip that?
25. Let’s cut to the chase and just go out on a date?
26. What’s Your Theme Song?
27. Why’d You Swipe Right?
28. Titanic. That’s my icebreaker.
29. What’s Your Favorite Book?
30. There’s something special about a first love. Have I told you how special you are to me?

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